figure it out

People have called me abrasive, and the same day can tell me that no matter what they do they can't picture me being aggressive. I don't know if this is good or bad, but it doesn't matter. I'm pretty happy despite their views. the problem is, I'm not very tact full. I think that if there is a truth, it should be said. I don't get mad at really anything so I like to know what everyone thinks about me. someone may hate me, but I'd like to know that at least. So I forget that no everyone is like that. Whenever there's something someone has told me that they don't like about someone, something that person can fix so that more people like them, I try to tell them that. But they think I'm just criticising and they get mad and think I'm a bitch or something. it can be very difficult. People need to figure it out sometimes- for their own good!