figure it out

People have called me abrasive, and the same day can tell me that no matter what they do they can't picture me being aggressive. I don't know if this is good or bad, but it doesn't matter. I'm pretty happy despite their views. the problem is, I'm not very tact full. I think that if there is a truth, it should be said. I don't get mad at really anything so I like to know what everyone thinks about me. someone may hate me, but I'd like to know that at least. So I forget that no everyone is like that. Whenever there's something someone has told me that they don't like about someone, something that person can fix so that more people like them, I try to tell them that. But they think I'm just criticising and they get mad and think I'm a bitch or something. it can be very difficult. People need to figure it out sometimes- for their own good!

Always better

For every moment there is in life, the next one will be better. Things always get better. I truly believe that at your best moment or worst moment, knowing that in the near future things will be improved, even in your happiest moment, makes life constantly improve.

Like dieting, I've lost a bunch of weight and people keep asking me how. I can't really give them an answer that helps. I think that all I did differently was change my thinking and my body followed. All the food I ate was just energy for the things I do- it's not fat. I know that when my foot is tapping it's burning calories and that laughing is the best exercise i could do for my abs. So for people looking for ways to lose weight, yes- diet and exercise help the most. But you can't do anything if all you think about are how many calories you consume and how they're going to add fat to your thighs. If u think that...then how does it help inspire you to be a new beautiful person?

I'm still working to my goal weight and after 40, 5 more is nothing. You should try it some times. It's fun to go shopping with the jeans in your size :)